The Wounded Innocent
There is something peculiar which does not quite meet the eye in the case of Col. Russell Williams, former commanding officer of CFB Trenton, whose horrible exploits as a murderer of two women, a rapist and a break-and-enter thief has brought shame to the Canadian military command. Shame also to Canada that such a monster posing as an upright military man of high standing could have gone undetected while he roamed the countryside seeking victims.
That something peculiar is the fact that he was a loving husband of a woman to whom he had been married for decades. Mary Elizabeth Harriman is now as good as a widow. It is unlikely she will ever share quality time with her husband in the future. She may visit him in prison, but it is to be fervently anticipated that he will spend the rest of his natural life in prison. On the other hand, how likely is that, given sentencing for the most dreadful crimes, these days?
How is it even remotely possible that a woman would be married to a man for many years and not know him intimately in the psychological sense? Particularly as the marriage relationship was reputed by former neighbours to be a sound one, and the two represented as a loving, mutually concerned couple. Who knows the mysterious ways of visceral psychopaths? Skilled in concealing their inner thoughts and urges.
On the other hand, Col. Williams concealed some 500 pieces of women's lingerie in the home he shared with his wife. The house which has been described as immaculately maintained. The lingerie was found in many different places in that house. A computer, photographs and baby blankets were also taken away. How could their presence, in those numbers, and the many hiding places, have possibly escaped his wife's notice or suspicion?
It rings peculiar that Mary Elizabeth Harriman, who has a responsible, well-remunerated position with a local charity is concerned for her financial future in light of her husband's sadistical enterprises and his future incarceration. She is reputed to have conferred with her husband to agree to signing over their mutually-owned property to sole ownership. To protect the property in her name, in light of a suit brought against her husband by one of his victims.
Ms. Harriman has hounded the Ontario Provincial Police - who undertook a search of that house to reveal and take into custody as evidence, the 500 pieces of women's lingerie he had amassed through his break-and-enter career - to pay for 'restoring' the hardwood floor of the house which they had inadvertently in their search, scratched. The OPP had taken great care not to leave a mess behind them.
To exempt themselves from the possibility of claims that they had been destructive in their search of the house they had taken the precaution of taking before-and-after photographs of the condition of the house. Despite their best efforts, they did leave some scratches on the hardwood floor. And Ms. Harriman complained on a number of occasions to the OPP that they were responsible for replacing the floors.
The floors were not to be professionally re-finished. Ms. Harriman's standards appear more demanding than that. They were to be replaced entirely, a new floor installed. The OPP agreed to pick up the $3,000 cost associated with replacing the scratched floor. It is as though conscience is completely missing here. As though the woman was not stricken with remorse over the fate of those women her husband haunted, humiliated, tortured and murdered.
She has, evidently, never committed to a statement that would reveal she knew nothing of her husband's state of mind, his preoccupation with sexual violence and sadistic gratification.
That something peculiar is the fact that he was a loving husband of a woman to whom he had been married for decades. Mary Elizabeth Harriman is now as good as a widow. It is unlikely she will ever share quality time with her husband in the future. She may visit him in prison, but it is to be fervently anticipated that he will spend the rest of his natural life in prison. On the other hand, how likely is that, given sentencing for the most dreadful crimes, these days?
How is it even remotely possible that a woman would be married to a man for many years and not know him intimately in the psychological sense? Particularly as the marriage relationship was reputed by former neighbours to be a sound one, and the two represented as a loving, mutually concerned couple. Who knows the mysterious ways of visceral psychopaths? Skilled in concealing their inner thoughts and urges.
On the other hand, Col. Williams concealed some 500 pieces of women's lingerie in the home he shared with his wife. The house which has been described as immaculately maintained. The lingerie was found in many different places in that house. A computer, photographs and baby blankets were also taken away. How could their presence, in those numbers, and the many hiding places, have possibly escaped his wife's notice or suspicion?
It rings peculiar that Mary Elizabeth Harriman, who has a responsible, well-remunerated position with a local charity is concerned for her financial future in light of her husband's sadistical enterprises and his future incarceration. She is reputed to have conferred with her husband to agree to signing over their mutually-owned property to sole ownership. To protect the property in her name, in light of a suit brought against her husband by one of his victims.
Ms. Harriman has hounded the Ontario Provincial Police - who undertook a search of that house to reveal and take into custody as evidence, the 500 pieces of women's lingerie he had amassed through his break-and-enter career - to pay for 'restoring' the hardwood floor of the house which they had inadvertently in their search, scratched. The OPP had taken great care not to leave a mess behind them.
To exempt themselves from the possibility of claims that they had been destructive in their search of the house they had taken the precaution of taking before-and-after photographs of the condition of the house. Despite their best efforts, they did leave some scratches on the hardwood floor. And Ms. Harriman complained on a number of occasions to the OPP that they were responsible for replacing the floors.
The floors were not to be professionally re-finished. Ms. Harriman's standards appear more demanding than that. They were to be replaced entirely, a new floor installed. The OPP agreed to pick up the $3,000 cost associated with replacing the scratched floor. It is as though conscience is completely missing here. As though the woman was not stricken with remorse over the fate of those women her husband haunted, humiliated, tortured and murdered.
She has, evidently, never committed to a statement that would reveal she knew nothing of her husband's state of mind, his preoccupation with sexual violence and sadistic gratification.
Labels: Human Fallibility, Human Relations
17 Comments:
The fact that Ms. Harriman has sued the OPP over her hardwood floor leaves me appalled and dumbfounded.
How does this woman have the gall to do this? Has she forgotten the reason the OPP were searching her house in the first place?
I'm sure she could pay for it from the generous pension her husband has.
I think she's trying to emphasize that she's innocent of her husband's 'activities' by making the OPP pay for her damaged floor, and she's trying hard to draw a line between herself and her 'other' life. (Perhaps the scratched floor couldn't be fixed?)
I think she's emphasizing that she's innocent of her husband's 'activities' by making the OPP pay for her scratched floor, and she's drawing a line between herself and her former life. (Perhaps the floor couldn't be repaired?)
Why criticize Ms. Harriman? What has she done wrong? People seem to blame the innocent partner for the guilty person's actions, such as: why didn't she notice anything unusual in her house? Would you snoop around? Where is the trust?
Alison, how deep is the love and commitment when one of the partners is so oblivious to the deep-seated neuroses of the other?
Ms. Harriman has made it abundantly clear that she is ultimately concerned with her financial future. Her stoic unconcern with her loving husband's career in preying on women and children speaks volumes about her sensitivity about the plight of her fellow creatures; the death of two women does not appear to weigh on her consciousness.
I think Madamme Harriman should be
concerned about the death of the victims, What if the blood of the girls were on her floor. in a sense
it was, it was imperative that police get the evidence.
She should not be concerned about her scratched floors, she owes the police an apology and should not be
paid three thousand dollars, she should make a donation to victims
of crime.
I think that Harriman's public persona of a caring and modest, loving wife is pure fabrication, and only what she acted to the world. Given her incredible actions, she is almost more disgusting than her husband; she truly had no idea how normal people would react to her avarice. Now she's whining (through her lawyer) that she's oh-so-fragile, blah blah blah, to scare off any scrutiny.
Takes two psychos to tango, I guess.
This woman is almost as nuts as her husband worrying about her precious floors. I don't think too many people in Canada feel the least bit sorry for her. She has not expressed any emotion except for herself. There is a special place in hell waiting for the likes of her. Jeff
Perhaps if her husband offers a settlement to the surviving victims, and to the families of the dead victims, then she and all those concerned can work on going on with their lives.
Perhaps if her husband offers a settlement to the survivors and to the families of the dead victim, then they can work on going on with their lives. And she could also get a divorce without disclosing her medical records.
I do not agree with PieFace, Stop
condemning Harriman, YOU do not
know how she feels, Your hate does
not help the victims, Lets start
a fund for the victims. I am sure we could raise $3,000.00.
I agree the victims should be compensated with the Colonels
pension but we could do something
to raise money for victim's of crime.
Dear Hope,
There is already a victims' fund. I hardly think that if we raise $3000 it would be enough to help victims of violent crime.
I am appalled that Jeff and Donna
are so full of Hate and blame
Elizabeth Harriman for not knowing
about the Colonel, I think in
less civilized days they would hang
her. That is so wrong she is a victim, so Jeff, Donna should have
mercy.
Hopealison24 is a kind, common sense person, I agree with her.
Hatinng Elizabeth does not help the victims or the families.
I thinks people should have mercy
for Elizabeth Harriman.
I think it is appalling that Jeff
said there should be a special place in hell for her and she is
almost as nutso as her husband.
Dear Hope
So you think we should be paying for Ms Harriman's precious floors. Do you have any idea how much she is overpaid at the Heart and Stroke foundation? I do. My mom used to canvas for them till she found out how much of the money went to the administration.....and Ms Harriman has the gall to sue for her floors.......I know where she's going and so do most Canadian's.
Legally they had to pay for her damaged floors. I only meant she may have requested the police pay for her floors because she was very upset over her husband's 'activities' and she wanted to separate herself from what he did. I hope she told him off rather than act real sad about what he did.
Sorry, Jeff, I just noticed you referred to Hope. I replied anyway. But I should say the The Heart & Stroke Foundation is a major charity and the people working at the top run it on a full time basis. I know. I volunteer for a ballet company and volunteers are regularly scheduled to put in one 4 hour shift a month throughout most of the year. The mangagement team works full time there so they get paid a full time salary. Volunteers get complimentary tickets to shows.
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